For some reasons, it is normal not knowing who you actually by now. As you go on, time would reveal it to you, and that time, you'll be ready to be an adult and act on how you'll respond by accepting who you really are when you're adult. Anonymous September 27th, am. Some adults dont even know who they are.
It just takes time. Try to learn more about yourself over time:. The ability to know ones self is a huge task. Some people never fully figure out who they are. The goal of life is to figure who you are and how to being happy in the situations that you are given. Anonymous October 11th, pm. It is normal not to know who you are until any point in time. Everyone faces struggles throughout their life, but self-identifying is a sure common struggle.
No one never knows exactly who they are. We all tend to find ourselves at different times and in many, many different ways. Our paces of finding who we are for the most part just differ person to person. So don't sweat it. Let what you are passionate about and how you change come without pushing it away or trying to hurry it. Anonymous June 19th, pm. It is not at all wrong to not understand your own sexuality.
It takes time to understand and accept what is happening and the changes that come with it. Our identity is fluid, it can change through our life, it's not wrong to experience changes or to be complex enough to make it hard to label yourself. The good thing is we don't need labels! We can just be who we are and do what we feel like doing without having to define ourselves. There is a certain freedom in this. Self-actualization is a long, arduous process that takes a lifetime We are dynamic beings that always have room for growth and change.
It's a beautiful thing, to be able to flex and flow with new information and experiences, though this can sometimes make us feel unstable and anxious. I guess what I'm saying is, it's absolutely normal to have periods of time where you have no idea who you are, and to have periods of time where you know exactly who you are and what you want.
Of course! There's not a specific time when you have to have everything figured out. It takes time to have everything figured out, and some people take more time than others. Once you're an adult, things start falling more into place sometimes. Yes, it is absolutly normal. And even then there is no guarantee you will know for sure who you are. You learn more and more about yourself as time goes on, and you change depending on circumstances, so there is always more to learn. Anonymous December 17th, pm.
Yes, its normal that's why I believe that we people should not rush things and learned to wait till its ur time so that you missed any single special moment in our life. I hope that never happens to you, but in case it has, you can take it as a clear sign of your lack of self-awareness.
When you know yourself, you know your strengths and your shortcomings. This is a psychological fact I learned from Influence by Robert B. Cialdini; we tend to adjust our image of ourselves according to the way others see us. You get the idea. In some cases, you may feel overwhelmed in social situations because you work so hard to be liked by others that you end up feeling anxious all the time.
We all have our own definitions of things. Each one of us has its definition of success, happiness, love, fun. In your quest for seeing approval on the outside, you end up giving more of yourself than you need to.
Knowing your principles, values, philosophies, and beliefs makes it easier for you to make choices. A few years ago, when I was going to therapy twice a week and suffering from anxiety and depression, I desperately searched for the answers to my problems on Google. In order for a person who is confused about their role in life to continue on that journey into adulthood, there must be another person enabling them.
This person makes excuses for them, indulges them, minimizes their behavior, or likes them just the way they are because they are more easily manipulated and controlled. So to change the confused adult, the adult who is enabling them needs to stop. Otherwise, the confused adult will have no motivation to change their behavior. Once this has happened, the confused adult can begin the hard work of figuring out who they really are.
The good part is that everyone possesses unique gifts and talents. An adult who can identify this knows how to use them contributes positively to their family and society.
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